A
Bronx
Boy!
I
was the elder of two boys born in the Bronx to a humble couple in
1957. Mom was the traditional neglected housewife. Dad worked all
the time it seemed but, despite holding down two and three jobs, he
never could raise us up out of poverty. The world was still innocent
in the 50's and 60's and my parents raised me with traditional
Christian values. My mom took me to church, sometimes to the 7th Day
Adventists, other times to whatever Catholic church was convenient.
Honestly, the neighborhood Pentecostal services were my favorite!
Folks leaping out of chairs, shrieking testimonials, religious
Ecstasy and
histrionics were all part and parcel of Sundays. It was quite the
show and who could sleep through that!? Somewhere in there dad
became a devout Jehovah’s Witness and decided we ALL
had to become “devout" JW’s as well. Mom went numbly
through the motions but was never a true believer. We studied the
Bible morning noon and night while also attending five meetings a
week at “Kingdom Hall.” Genesis to
Revelation, chapter and verse we learned
all about Bible
history, characters and JW doctrine on
virtually every conceivable topic. I
was chock full knowledge, raring to 'save the world’ and ready to
teach and preach from a very tender age.
'The
Preacher'
For
a couple of decades my lot in life became that of a Minister and
teacher serving churches in the New York area and, occasionally,
speaking in very large venues to many thousands of listeners. Having
been trained as a professional speaker from High School and on into
the Ministry School, my personal mission was to never
become like those humorless preachers that haunted my early memories!
Although my Christian minister days are long past, whenever I
lecture or conduct seminars I still make it my business to get people
involved, inspired, make them laugh and send them home with something
positive to stick under their thinking caps.
'Lost in the
“Wilderness”'
The simple truth is, loads of cash was spent on self-help cassette
tape programs and books by motivational stars of the day. I was
lost in a wilderness of books! Every one claimed to have the “key”
…the “system” …the “secret” I
desperately needed to get my life on track. I'm sure they helped
someone, they just didn't seem to work for ME!
It was frustrating!! The real 'secret' was left for me to
find on my own. In time, I did.
‘The Wizard’
Horns symbolize the male aspect of divinity, NOT the Devil! |
As
it turned out my truest calling was and is to be a wizard. Now...
take a moment to flush out those silly notions of Harry Potter and
Gandalf. Real-life
wizards are rather different. The term ‘wizard’ refers
to a wise person. The
Occult and Magick are also a
big part of my life. Most people are
surprised to learn that Pagans, witches
and wizards like me share most
Judeo-Christian values such as love for God, goodness, integrity,
civic responsibility, etc. Spiritual truth
and basic human decency are
not the sole property of the
Christian faith.
Truth and
goodness can be found in
all the
world’s great religions ~ including
alternative faiths like
Wicca, for example. When
Nature herself decides the world needs only one kind of bird, only
one kind of flower, only one kind of human being, I will accept that
there should be only one method to worship.
Ironically,
I have led Christian congregations in prayer as their Minister and
later in life led Wiccan covens in prayer as their High Priest! As a
wizard and Pagan I learned not to judge others ~ that’s
God’s job, not mine. In fact it
makes me think of the words of Jesus at Matthew 7:1-2: “Do
not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge
others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be
measured to you.” Sounds like good
advice to me!
My
work helps people to do 3 critically important things in life:
1)
Identify your truest, core self. Find the answer to the question;
“who am I really?’
2)
Match your true self with life paths that are fulfilling and
happiness comes naturally.
3)
Uncover hidden talents and help you overcome even persistent
personality flaws.
As
a Wizard / Life
Coach my goal is to help each person to reconnect with their own
inner power. To realize who they are mentally, emotionally and
spiritually ~ however that individual
chooses to define themselves. Notice
I said spiritual,
not religious. It is not my place to interfere with anyone’s
religious lives
and beliefs.
The ‘Shoppe
Keepers’
For
a few years it was my privilege to found, own and operate “Wizards”
located in Greenport and later with my wife in East Northport, NY.
An entire book could be written about this place and the many
wonderful goings on there. It transformed lives and hearts for the
better. It created memories that will never be forgotten by those
who experienced them. Being a part of this enterprise
is one of my proudest achievements.
This
shoppe was a strange hybrid business that combined retail store with
a learning space for classes and lectures as well as a venue for
delightful Open-Mic nights where the community could enjoy live
music, friends and fellowship in a safe and
secure drug and alcohol free environment.
“OY
VE!!”
Over
my lifetime it feels like I’ve
made every mistake known to man! My boot found every pot-hole,
turned right when it
should have turned left, my mouth opened
when it should
have stayed shut. So, what do I have to show for all those errors in
judgment, irrational fears, guilt and dumb-ass choices? Frankly, I
have a lot to show for it. Overcoming these life-crushing obstacles
has taught me wonderful lessons. Mind you, I bought these lessons
with my own blood, sweat and many, many tears. It was hard-won
knowledge. Here’s what I learned: Even if your life so far has
been filled with failure, heartache, misfortune, poverty and pain -
your past and present do NOT
equal your future. Starting today, starting now,
you can create a life that is well worth living, one you can be proud
of.
The
NEW Mission: KNOW
YOURSELF,
FIND YOUR PATH, LIVE
YOUR
LIFE!
Each
of us can discover a life path that matches who we are as unique
individuals.
Happiness is a function of knowing who you are, what you should be
doing with your life and then doing
it!
Is this a selfish pursuit? Not entirely. The fact is, a happier,
more accomplished YOU will impact everyone in your life in positive
ways. Happy
husbands make
better husbands. Happy wives make
better wives. Happy workers make
better workers, sons, daughters, etc.
So
why should I care about you and what happens in your life? Let’s
be honest, shall we? I know what you’re thinking. “This
Qumran guy stands to make a few bucks,”
right? You’re right. Fact is, everyone needs money ~ and there’s
no shame in that. But I know something you don’t. When a client
does business with me I get much more out of it than my fee. To see
hope rekindled in the eyes of someone who had none is a feeling that
cannot be described in mere words. To make a difference in this
world one individual at a time is a truly wonderful and profoundly
humbling experience. If you don’t believe me, try it yourself! I
cannot imagine a better way to earn my living than doing this work.
After all my years of living like an idiot, I found myself and my
true path. Now my finances, my relationships and my life are on
track. I will gladly, happily, GRATEFULLY
help you to do the same.
Here
are
a few
fast facts about
“The
Wizard”:
Many
consider me an authority on psychic
phenomenon, spirituality, Wicca and Witchcraft.
Self-improvement
and self-esteem
building programs are
also part of my teaching programs. I have
produced many seminars
and classes, authored
publications on the
Tarot
and also workbooks
to accompany my classes. I produced a guided meditation on CD
entitled "The Hidden Forest"
featuring my own music and voice
narration. My writings, quotes and personal interviews have been
published in respected New York magazines such as The
Village and
Creations,
books, newspapers like Newsday
and The
Long Island Press.
It was also a pleasure to be
interviewed for the film docu-drama "Montauk
Chronicles"
directed by Christopher P. Garetano. I was
featured in an extended FIOS
TV interview entitled
“The Wizard”
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